Well, its been an interesting three weeks to say the least. I'm not sure what hit the water here in town but things went from hectic to chaotic within twenty-four hours. And some of us couldn't quite keep up.
Steel Magnolia's was a smashing success. We received a standing ovation every night of the production. The cast was amazing to work with and the crew made the show. As a director I can honestly say that Steel Magnolia's reset our standards yet again and raised the bar. How the hell can I top that? Our director taught me a few new things for the next cast I direct. There were a few other directors groaning inwardly as well. On the other hand, everybody was totally floored and thrilled at the response this play got. I managed to bring a few people to tears, one lady I was told had to run to the bathroom she was crying so hard. It was incredible to be a part of, and the best thing about this whole experience was I got to share it with my daughter.
Christmas is going to be interesting this year. Hubby and I have decided to spend it at home. Maybe even start a couple of traditions of our own. We still haven't figured out what my parents are getting. They are the last. I have a couple of things to pick up for Mark and then I am done. Gifts this year are pretty much home made. But you know, after you pay for everything, you quickly figure out that it would be cheaper to go to Wally World and buy the gifts saving a whole lot of time.
We have a few new rules in the house. They have been set in place to help deal with a few things. First of all no should's, should've, need to, ought to, must do or what ever else adds pressure. I have also removed other things such as I'm going to throttle, beat, slap ... etc. We have also removed sarcasm from our tones and attitudes. I grew up with sarcasm, used sarcasm and bantered with it. But sarcasm can also be degrading, cruel and just plain bad behaviour. My Grandmother said, "Those with the wit of sarcasm should have the intelligence not to use it." The household motto now.
Things are settling down and the house is nice and calm. I hate going out now. I can't take all the people. I can perform in front of them no problem. They can't talk to me when I'm on stage and if I've done it right, they won't be able to say anything but what a good time they had. But out in the stores, Lord help me. Kids crying, screaming, people talking loudly, cell phones and the litany goes on. By the time I get home, I'm a shaking mass of nerves.
Yep, time to walk a gentler path. Now Scribble and Rhode, we won't be hearing from Artist for a bit. She has somethings she needs to take care of. Hopefully it won't be too long.
And Scribble I have a surprise for you. Keep an eye on this spot and in a couple of days I will show you what I have been up to.
3 comments:
When my hubby's health started getting worse, we went thru and made quite a few changes to our lives like that. We got rid of a lot of the negative stuff and people in our lives. I think we all reach a point where we realize what is important and what we can get rid of. Good for you. You and your hubby will feel loads better in the end.
As for going out and dealing with people and crowds and kids crying and all that other stuff, I can do without all that, also. When I do have to go out it all makes me cringe and want to hurry home to safety.
Take care and keep safe.
Hello my friend, I hope things are getting better with you. I am doing ok all things considered.
Love you
Cin
I used not to be aware of people who seek out your company to suck the energy from you. It changed years ago when a friend's parting words were,'I always feel better when I leave here'. Being aware of what was happening allowed me to protect myself against it. She still enjoyed her visits but it didn't deplete me. I don't mind sharing as long as there is something left for me (grin)
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